It is high time that human beings admit that there are those built for relationships and there are those who are not. Friends and family have the habit of treating someone like they are deformed if they are not in a relationship and it’s honestly just sad.
Many women are now single by choice especially after hearing all those cheating horror stories, we then came to the conclusion that we are better alone. We bet people in relationships sometimes wish they were single because of the following reasons.
1. No worrying about being cheated on.
How great is this? Let’s just be honest and admit that the very many people who are in relationships or marriages have been cheated on or live in the fear that they will be cheated on. When you’re single you just sleep knowing no one is out there cheating on you.
2. Don’t have to explain yourself when you go out partying too much.
Yes, there are some overprotective men out there who act like fathers to their women. A single woman will wake up, go on with her day without having to explain herself to someone at all times. She is content with her freedom and she embraces it.
3. You don’t have to spend any money on any guy
Yes, being single means you save a lot of money. There is no pressure to go on dates, buy gifts or transport costs to see him. All the money you have is for you alone.
4. You can go on as many dates as you like
There will be no one spying on you waiting to catch you cheating. As a single woman, you can tell a man that there is a long list of men waiting to date you and it’s really their problem.
5. You don’t have to keep thinking of ways to make your relationship better
It gets to a point when a relationship just goes stale and you have to figure how to make it fresh again. A single woman is probably thinking of how to make more money, what food she will eat when she will get her hair done all for herself.
6. You don’t have to be in constant communication with someone
Sometimes you’re just too tired to keep texting back and forth with someone. A single woman likes her time and doesn’t like being forced to explain her whereabouts or why her phone was off. She doesn’t owe anyone any explanation and she doesn’t miss doing so.
7. You don’t have to settle with some guy who is not right for you
Many people settle for sore losers all in the name of being in a relationship. A single woman would rather be alone than spend time with someone who doesn’t appreciate her or makes her unhappy half of the time.
8. You actually have sex when you want to
She probably has a guy who she can sleep with every now and then. But there’s no pressure of trying to make a man happy sexually when she gets her dose she is happy to stay alone or even without it. This means she doesn’t have to worry about pregnancies, emotional issues or STDs. She controls her sexual life and she loves it that way.
The single life can also get lonely and there are times a woman may want companionship. But choosing to be single is also a powerful thing to do, it means you are strong enough to be alone, you enjoy your own company and you understand that a man is just an addition to your life and not your whole life. To the people in happy relationships, may you continue to prosper.