Kenyan men try to trap women in very weird ways.
They don’t love you but they will always want to have you anyways. They sure ways of making sure you don’t spread your wings and fly is by using these tactics. I am sure a Kenyan man has told you to do any of these things before and if you entered the trap then we are sorry.
1. Get my baby
Yeah, like getting a baby is just a hobby we should all pursue. Kenyan men insist that you should get his baby if you love him and you know why? Because once you get that baby he basically has his stamp on you honey. You can move on but he will be tied to you whether you like it or not as long as that baby is existent.
2. Let’s move in together
Then you’re there like awww that’s so nice. That’s one way to lose your independence and why should he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? He will basically make you his wife without marrying you.
3. They get engaged to you for so long
I mean for a really long time, what kind of witchcraft is this? I think that’s witchcraft. For real, how in the world are you engaged for more than two years? Then he will start calling you his wife or once he introduces you to his side of the family he starts claiming you, you’re not his until it’s legal.
4. They tell you to stop working
Stop working because money grows on trees? It’s insane that a man would ask you to quit your job and you actually would. Never stop working because your money is the only thing that will give you independence.
5. They move you to an expensive apartment
Because if you can’t afford it by yourself you will always need him. It may be great in the beginning but if he pays your rent and everything then he essentially owns you. Keep a lifestyle that you can actually afford without a man.
Men also try and trap women. You need to always strive to be independent without being glued to a man. A man will not be scared of you going anywhere if he knows that he has you on lock.