“It takes a couple of seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye.” ― Anonymous
If you have often wondered why your girl broke up with you, maybe you need to retrospect upon the kind of relationship you shared with her.
If you don’t understand why the most-loved woman in your life dumped you, the problem could actually be you. Women may be considered to be complicated (even more than math), but men aren’t helping the situation either. At times, guys tend to add to the confusion, and end up being dumped simply for getting on to the wrong side of a woman.
Take a look at some reasons, which are a complete turn off for women, leading to subsequent breakups.
A successful relationship is plausible only with mutual acceptance of each other, in a complete manner. But if you make the following mistakes, chances are you’re still going to wind up single sooner or later.
1. You don’t know how to treat or make a woman happy.
You have always been there for her in the initial courtship period, but somehow after the chocolates and red roses, you probably have not spent quality time with her. Nothing irks a woman more than this.
You don’t have to always shower her with expensive gifts; a true lover would only want to be with you for that romantic walk in the rain, or a night at the movies. If you haven’t given her enough time from your busy schedule, or kept her waiting endlessly for a Saturday night date, you deserve to be dumped.
Maybe you can try managing your time better. Who knows? You might just win her back.
2. Being possessive to a certain extent is natural in any relationship, but no woman would like to have her guy breathing down her neck all day long.
Being questioned unnecessarily about her whereabouts, and why she has chosen to wear a sexy halter instead of a modest T-shirt, may just irritate a woman, and repel her from you.
Sure, you have to protect her from the bad guys outside, but a little trust in her would help you to secure the bond. It would only bring her closer to you, rather than making her want to dump you.
3. You Never say “I’m Sorry”. Everyone likes to save face. But having too much pride to never apologize can be a really big problem.
Respect for each other is required for a successful relationship.
Having a sense of humor is fine, but no woman would appreciate your constant jibes about her work or other issues. Learn to take active interest in what she does, and appreciate her with kind words, rather than looking down upon her. If you do not respect her, chances are you would be shown the door sooner than expected.
4. You are not romantic and you don’t know how to use words such as; sweetie, Angel, Sexy, My world, Treasure, My Queen etc.
Women love to hear these praises. We all know women fall in love with what men say.
5. Some guys lie a lot believing that ladies fall in love when you tell them lies. It’s wrong because when she finds out the real you, she’ll probably ‘left’ group.
6. You don’t know her friends. Boxing out your partner’s friends is a relationship deal breaker. You don’t have to love her girlfriends, but you need to respect the bond she has with them.
7. You don’t ask questions. Your silence says a lot.
By not asking follow-up questions to her stories, you’re expressing that you’re not interested in her life,
8. You have No Future Ambition (NFA). No woman wants a man that has no prospect.
Loving a man with no ambition is a very demotivating factor for any woman who wishes to have a relationship that’s for keeps. Seeing her man lazing around, with no drive or goal in life, can be a complete put-off for her. Go and get your life back on track.
Show her that you can dazzle everybody at work, and your gray cells do function well.
9. You’re never on time.
You got stuck in traffic. You spilled a coffee as you walked out the door. You lost track of time. Whatever the excuse is, your girlfriend is sick of you consistently showing up 5 or 10 minutes late.
10. You can’t stop gushing about your ex. A man who keeps talking about his ex-girlfriend all the time is heading towards a breakup, even before he realizes what’s hit him. This is probably one of the biggest deal breakers in any relationship.
Nothing can annoy any self-respecting woman more than watching her man make constant comparisons between her and his ex. Constantly gawking at women while you are out on a date with her, and displays of such intolerable behavior would make her drop any thoughts of you, like a used tissue.
All these particular signs completely turn a woman off, and compel her to take the extreme decision. She may show no regrets thereafter.
In contrast however, you can do a couple of things to ensure your girl ever leaves, explained in the video below: