‘I might not be having kids after 35 years, but doesn’t mean I am barren’ Phenny Awiti pens down an emotional motivational message

Phenny Awiti is a strong woman. The 27-year-old mother living with HIV/AIDs has won the hearts of many, thanks to her bravery. She has shared an emotional message encouraging people to be content with what they have.

Through her Instagram account, she wrote; “We have different people battling different issues, with different targets in this life.
Just because you see people so happier on social media, driving V8s, keeping fit in the gym, going to those safaris and vacations, enjoying life to the fullest, doesn’t mean they did not battle or are battling things in their moments.

  
 
 
 
 
 
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 We have different people battling different issues, with different targets in this life. Just because you see people so happier on social media, driving V8s, keeping fit in the gym, going to those safaris and vacations, enjoying life to the fullest, doesn't mean they did not battle or are battling things in their moments. They might be having so much fun in real life, but we are all battling something. HIV aside, people are battling so many things but still choose to be happy, genuinely. Also, because someone began their company or project and it is blooming after days, doesn't mean that you are a failure when yours is not picking years later. The most I have learned in this life, is to support whole heartedly, regardless of your struggles and issues in life, if you can. It is so easy to just give your support, encouragement and genuine wishes to people, even if you feel like your life is not in a better place. It is easier to keep sending genuine love to that happy couple even though you have been having struggles with your love life. I might not be having kids after 35 years, but doesn't mean I am barren, I might not be having that house at 45 years, doesn't mean that I am a failure and lazy bone, I might not be having that car after 40 years, doesn't mean that I am not making boss moves as a 30 year old did. If there is something that this life has taught me, it is to be content with what I have, and strive and desire to achieve more, while passionately supporting my neighbour who is even doing well, if I can. Life should be that simple, genuinely give love, genuinely support, genuinely be happy for people. Feel inspired, you are doing just fine, because your desires are still alive. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
 
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They might be having so much fun in real life, but we are all battling something. HIV aside, people are battling so many things but still choose to be happy, genuinely. Also, because someone began their company or project and it is blooming after days, doesn’t mean that you are a failure when yours is not picking years later.

The most I have learned in this life is to support wholeheartedly, regardless of your struggles and issues in life, if you can. It is so easy to just give your support, encouragement and genuine wishes to people, even if you feel like your life is not in a better place. It is easier to keep sending genuine love to that happy couple even though you have been having struggles with your love life.

I might not be having kids after 35 years, but doesn’t mean I am barren, I might not be having that house at 45 years, doesn’t mean that I am a failure and lazy bone, I might not be having that car after 40 years, doesn’t mean that I am not making boss moves as a 30 year old did.

If there is something that this life has taught me, it is to be content with what I have and strive and desire to achieve more, while passionately supporting my neighbour who is even doing well, if I can. Life should be that simple, genuinely give love, genuinely support, genuinely be happy for people. Feel inspired, you are doing just fine because your desires are still alive.”