Reasons why modern Nairobi women enjoy cheating on their men

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The very public and distasteful break up between popular Kenyan Youtuber Natalie Tewa and Rnaze over her cheating allegations has sparked online fury and rage.

Natalie has since accused the man of being utterly broke and riding on her success for fame.

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KOT is furious that a girl dares cheat on her man.

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While it might be shocking to some, this is a growing trend among Nairobians. Here are some of the reasons women have given for their wayward behaviours:

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For starters, they got tired of the cheating ways of their men.

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Apparently, for some women, rather than confront their men about their cheating ways, they opt to have their side affairs in peace, and this gives the family stability, of course until the man discovers and all hell breaks loose.

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Millennial women are super vengeful and armed with some feminism ideals, the habit has spread among women and is often the subject in many chama meetings.

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And there are two classes of women: those who sanction affairs, and those opposed to them. Those who support the affairs most likely have a university degree, drink and have a very liberal attitude.

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There used to be a time when women would feel guilty after an affair. But increasingly, I am meeting women with no sense of guilt and who have numbed their conscience to a point of being inhuman.

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A human being with no conscience is a scary person. No wonder, some women kill their spouses? I believe a woman who cheats on her man would probably kill the man.

What I have learned is that it is mostly innocent men who get cheated on, not the unfaithful ones.

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Secondly, increasingly, there is a bunch of women who are complaining that their husbands are boring. People rarely change. When these women married their men, they knew what they were signing up for.

But maybe they were under the pressure of their biological clocks or got an ‘accidental’ pregnancy, or was after the man’s money. Five years later, and two children, the man is suddenly a bore.

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Thirdly, there is peer pressure. With the proliferation of porn, sex therapists and books such as 50 Shades of Grey, most educated millennials think they have a right to an orgasm.

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With chamas and the ‘go-go-girl attitude’ that guides most millennial women, a majority of them are searching for the elusive big-O, and are experimenting with everything  – from toys to gym instructors and exes.

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Fourth, living in cities, the ubiquity of technology and work have given perfect cover for women to unleash their darker side that was curtailed by being domesticated for so long.

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Fifth, most millennial men are struggling financially, and a broke man cannot have an erection. Hence, they are naturally disciplined.

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Most monied millennial women have access to sex whenever and wherever they want. Also, the few loaded men can change women like we change kids’ diapers.

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So, most men are forced into monogamy and faithfulness, while women run riot.

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What does it mean to society, when more women cheat than men? Divorce rate rises. There’s an upsurge of single mothers.

Sexually transmitted diseases become the order of the day. A total breakdown of societal mores become common place. Crime rate shoots up.

Cheating breaks down families, which breaks down societies. It is wrong when men cheat. But women cheating is not the solution. Two wrongs don’t make a right.

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