Top Tanzanian Activist Mange Kimambi has made a plea to Tanzanian Artist Diamond Platnumz to forgive his father.
Kimambi in a long Instagram post has given all the reasons as to why Diamond should forgive his father saying that it will give him real peace.
“No human can live a peaceful life if they are in disagreement with their parents who brought them into this world” she stated
The Tanzanian activists also mentioned that many people might not tell him but some of his misfortunes and contributing factor to his relationship with his children is linked to how he treats his father.
Kimambi says that Diamond is giving the same treatment he got from his father who he claims never helped him while he was growing up.
She urges Diamond to forgive his father and break the cycle on how he is treating his children. Mange makes it clear that a time will come when Diamond will need help from his children and how treats them now is what will guide the children on whether to help him or not.
Mange Kimambi also advised Diamond to take the chance and forgive his father while he is still alive. She added that he will feel so much guilt if it happens that his father passes before he forgives him.
Have a look at her full message
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Diamond pls msamehe babako. Wenzenu tunalia kila siku kuwakosa wazazi wetu nyinyi wenzetu wenu wako hai alafu hamuwataki????? Msamehe huyu mzee, msamehe mara 70. Wewe mwenyewe huwezi kuwa sawa deep down kutokuelewana na huyu mzee. Hakuna binadamu anaweza kuishi a peaceful happy life bila kuelewana na mzazi wake aliemleta duniani. Uta pretend to be happy but deep down you will never be, something is missing. Inawezana huwezi ku connect dots ila hii situation na baba yako inachangia sana wewe kushindwa kuwa baba kwa watoto wako uliowazaa. Wengi hawawezi kukwambia ila let me tell you this ni mwanaume mwenye matatizo pekee anaweza kukaa karibia mwaka mzima hamjamtia mtoto wake machoni wala hajui mwanae anakula nini au anaishi vipi na anakaa nae hapo hapo Dar. Na mzizi mkubwa ni mahusiano yako na baba yako. Na wewe unawafanyia watoto wako kile kile alichokufanyia baba yako. It’s almost like unawalipizia watoto wako alichokufanyia baba yako. Kuna interview ulisemaga baba yako alikuwa na uwezo sana tu enzi hizo na hakukusaidia, hili ni fundisho kubwa kwako hata wewe 20 years from now unaweza kuwa huna kitu na watoto wako ndo wakazishika na wao watakukazia kama wewe unavyomkazia mzee wako na mama zao ndo watawatia sumu mpaka . Tafadhali Diamond break the circle. Acha hii kitu iishie kwako isiendelee kwa kizazi chako pia.
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Pia niamini napokwambia kuwa siku dingi ako akifa na hujaelewana nae utatamani ukamchimbue kaburini umwambie umemsamehe….. Utatamani urudishe nyuma muda uelewane nae. Siku huyu mzee akifa hakuna mtu atakae umia zaidi yako wewe sababu ya guilt, na utaumia zaidi vile hutoweza kuexpress uchungu wako msibani sababu kila mtu atakushangaa why unamlilia na huku alipokuwa hai hukutaka hata kupokea simu yake? Hakuna kifo kitakachosumbua nafsi yako kama cha huyu mzee iwapo utaruhusu aingie kaburini kabla hujaelewana nae….
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You are not a bad person, naamini huyu mzee amekuumiza mno but this is your father. Lazma umsamehe ili hata wewe mwenyewe upate amani ya kweli. Utapata thawabu kubwa ukiweza kumsamehe baba yako na kusahau yaliyopita.
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