How to deal with a nagging girlfriend

Scientifically, men are more muscular than women. However, when it boils down to the soft side of life and love, women are way more subtle, covert and swift.

While men claim to be at a higher plane in terms of determining who they be with, a lady who truly needs you will employ every trick in the book to trap you.

As men, a little knowledge about how to escape the wiles of women can pretty much make us calmer when we notice a sudden change in their behaviour.

Why is she behaving this way?

Women express themselves in subtle ways. If you want to stay in control of her actions and thoughts, these tips will place you a step ahead.

Comply

When you always fight with your wife over simple things like leaving your socks on the couch, stepping into the house with dirty shoes or leaving your toothbrush in the toilet, just do it. Too bad, this won’t stop. But is it worth separation? Certainly no.

Let it go

Sometimes, your wife will come up with a fabricated story and insist you did whatever you can swear by your life you didn’t do. In most of these cases, do not argue. As long as it does not have the potential to severely affect your union. Truth has a way of finally showing up at the right moment.

Stop over-promising

Girlfriends are not mad (with a few exceptions), but when you find yourself promising things you just can’t follow through, they nag.

To get the unnecessary pressure off your back, shut up your mouth. Oftentimes, men struggle with overcompensation. They just feel the need to reward every kind gesture and this leads to overpromising things you cannot afford.

Keep her updated

Most of the time, your girlfriend may just be feeling excluded from your plans and decisions. When this feeling engulfs her, she will nag you and ask a barrage of questions. Just tell her everything. Save yourself the burden.

Ask her what she wants.

When everything else fails, the only way, apart from prayer, is to ask her what she really wants. This question has a way of triggering deep introspection. If she is intelligent enough, she will understand that you are tired of her nagging and change for the better.

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